a small request and suggestion from this kookar
jeeo, once a bajjar kurehit is done
a lot of people, your friends, your gursikh sangat might think lowly about you
gursikhs might even stop talking to you and tell other gursikhs to do the same
this can really leave an individual feeling low and outcasted
keep one thing in mind, your objective right now is to get into guroo sahib's good books again
not other humans
so focus on that, there are many, including myself that try to impress people
IMPRESS GUROO SAHIB
show HIM that you're sorry
make him forgive you
this means doing what is suggested above in the posts and of course going for pesh
there is no other choice in this case
when guroo sahib jee feels ur ready, he will automatically get people to understand ur "Sudhaar" (change)
and the gursikhs will call u with love again and will ask u to be in their sangat
i'm sure you're already aware of this
but i thought i'd suggest it, because it is difficult to impress guroo sahib and its easier to impress people and make them like u. Your mind will tempt you to impress others.
i'm sure you'd agree with the above statement
bhul chuk de muaafee jee
vaheguroojeekaakhalsaa vaheguroojeekeefatheh
daas