waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh
ns ji, this is just my opinion, but first answer that comes to my mind, is... having love for all HIS creation is lovin HIM, since we are HIS creation, we do love ourselves. that's why we take care of ourselves, keep up with hygeine, do not harm our bodies, degrade it or anything. BUT we're mere humans, we dont understand the difference between love and ego when it comes to this case. if we love ourselves, it should be because we love HIM first and foremost. most of us do love ourselves, but that's not love, its ego...which blinds us.
i dont know if that helps or not, but that's just what i think, and wanted to include my input.
mahraj ji speaks to us. currently the shabad i am listening to
"aap thiaag sharnee pavaaan."
also i think if we accept that there is no ME for us to love, just HIM, then all our love is HIS and for HIM. =)
bhul chuk maaf
waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh