Bhenji 1kaur ji,
Yes, it is private matter for parents but,they should aware what they can do else for thier children.
Guru Teghbahdur and Mata Gujari ji have done great sewa and simran in baba bakala.we should learn from parents.
My meaning to do bhagti by parents was like 15 hours daily nitname and sewa also for your commited time in ardass.it would help to attain high sprituality,for child and parents itself.
NOT just doing 2 path sukhmani sahib for year before child birth, but some extra effort.
For example, Parent are not looking for child after marridge for next 3 years and doing sewa all the time and doing 2 sehajpath every month, more sukhmani sahib,more nitname for that 3 years.
If Parents do so,that means we are doing as much we can,Vaheguroo ji will definatily bless.
IK TIL VI GURU SAHIB NI KISE DA KITA WASTE JAN DENDE
bhul chuk di muaafi g
Daas Heerasingh