"There is no need to do any Veham that it can't be read at a certain time. Gurbani can never have any negative effect." Note* for "Chandi di vaar" not chandi charitter. when handling a Khanda one should be trained and careful As it has two edges, As surely as it can cut dushtman it can cut your own hand. This bani is the vaar of the sword of akaal purakh, the shakti of akaal purakh.by prabhsimran-singh-cascadia - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!, This is a very delicate situation, I dont want to point you in the wrong direction, as per my knowledge first thing you should worry about when someone close to you turns away from guru sahib is that you dont get turned away from guru sahib with them, sometihng may be happening you dont know about, you may not know the full situation, We cant forceby prabhsimran-singh-cascadia - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Singh ji, was your brother rehitvan amritdhari? Daas doesnt know for sure but as per my understanding when we do ardas for others sometimes guru sahib makes us take their karam or some of it upon ourselves, This is may be more the case if the person you are doing ardas for isn't rehitvan amritdhari, better to do at least extra paath to fuel your ardass, and better still ask guru sahib forby prabhsimran-singh-cascadia - Gurmat Discussion Forum
This is copied from the Damdami Taksal Rehit Maryada 1. Birth Ceremony / Janam Sansakar (First Ceremony) When Vaaheguroo blesses a couple with a child, at this auspicious moment the first rite is to utter "Vaaheguroo" Gurmantar to the child. The midwife should be a Sikh, so that she can enact this rite. As soon as is possible after the birth Amrit is to be prepared in the following way: Anby prabhsimran-singh-cascadia - Gurmat Discussion Forum