According to what you said, lots of people can feel happy doing anything in maya like drinking alcohol, drugs, eating meat etc but that does not mean Vaheguru would want us to continue being happy in false pleasures that take us away from truth. I think the problem is that you are not accepting what you have. If you feel you look unattractive when you look in the mirror, then accept that. Therby Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Regardless of what opinion one holds, there are still Diamonds in other Jathay. They are held closely by Guru Sahib and can be blessed as much as Guru Sahib likes. They are his children and his to look after. Holding a low thought of other Jathay only brings hatred, disrespect and segregation. Guru Sahib has brought differences with our panth, so we should learn to accept his will and respect eveby Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Singhni Jee, It is not polite to talk like that at all. Using words like stupid, loser are not admirable traits of a Sikh. Especially because we are in Guru Sahib's image, we should represent Guru Sahib in the perfect way. Talking in that manner only brings us spiritually low. No one here is a loser; everyone will be saved in the end. Even the people that you have belittled can become the highesby Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum
That is amazing how Bhai Sahib Randhir Singh explains this.by Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum
It’s appalling of the comments I read on the other version (muslim version). You only have to look at them to see the truth. Good luck to the Gursikh; he’s doing a great job and also handled the situation well.by Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum
This could also mean we were easily influenced. There's no one to blame here but us. I believe there’s good and bad in every culture. We should take the good in everything rather than looking down at them due to cultural differences. Although Love marriages are frowned upon in Sikhi, it taught British People how to respect a woman which they manage to elevate more than most of us. Just look atby Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Sidhu Ji, Guru Sahib is our Father who takes us to our Husband, similarly in worldly terms of how a father brings the bride to her husband. The outward observances we maintain are important for us to be virtuously beautiful brides to Vaheguru and those are one of the characteristics Guru Sahib takes note of. If one were to take amrit, then we have no choice but to practice sikhi principlesby Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Regarding some points you have mentioned, it is clear that you are a good person. 1)Why is there evil? If God is capable, and willing, to prevent say a rape taking place, why is there no intervention? Does he not want to intervene, but is able to do so? Then surely he is not benevolent. Is he not capable of doing so, even though he wants to? Then he is technically not all powerful. It is fby Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Love- Oneness Unity guramukh eaek dhrisatt kar dhaekhahu ghatt ghatt joth samoee jeeo ||2|| As Gurmukh, look upon all with the single eye of equality; in each and every heart, the Divine Light is contained. ||2|| Our society is separated by groups and more groups due to differentiation in belief but we live amongst the world where there are multiple differences. How can we live amongst alby Singhni Miripiri - Gurmat Discussion Forum