Possible responses to give to people asking a Gursikh about Bibek Food Rehat? June 23, 2010 04:15AM |
Re: Possible responses to give to people asking a Gursikh about Bibek Food Rehat? June 23, 2010 08:02AM |
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Bhain jeeo,
As Bhai Gurdas Singh pointed out, it is usually hard to explain or reason out with the family as to why you can't eat from them anymore. Ones who are from Gursikh families have it easy but ones who come from regular families and want to keep Khalsa rehit, have to face some difficult time explaining why you can'teat from them. The worse mistake you can make is to lose patience. It will increase hostility from their side.
The wise thing to do is to try reasoning out why you keep Bibek. Make sure you hightlight the fact that purpose behind keeping dietary Bibek is not that you consider yourself superior and them inferior. The reason why Bibek is kept is to obey the hukam of Guru Sahib. Guru Sahib's hukam is to consider oneself as lowest of all. This is the play of Vaheguru and in this play our role is to play the role of Gursikhs. Why we do certain things is not for us to know. Our side of the contract is to obey the hukams of Guru Sahib and Guru Sahib's role is to bring union between us and our beloved one - Vaheguru. We play our role of obeying the hukams and Guru Sahib enables us to meet Vaheguru.
It would be a good idea if you gave your parents Bhai Sahib Randhir Singh jee's autobiography translated in English. It may bring some awareness about the Gurmat Bibek.
The foremost thing to do is to do an ardaas. Afterall, Vaheguru is sitting inside them too. If Vaheguru wills, there will be no problem at all.
We have all gone through this. At first our relatives were angry but as they saw positive Gurmukhi change in us, they adjusted and chose to ignore the dietary Bibek side of us.
Kulbir Singh
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Re: Possible responses to give to people asking a Gursikh about Bibek Food Rehat? June 25, 2010 11:37AM |
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Sukhdeep Singh
Most people in my family are not AmritDhari. They too often question bibek. I simply tell them that this diet is based on people who want to live a life of Naam contemplation. I mention to them that early in the morning its our habit to rise and meditate on Naam, then make an honest living and meditate on Naam. When I explain to them the concept of Naam, I then tell them that to keep this Naam in place the food one eats must be prepared when reciting Naam by a person who follows the Sikh code of conduct.