Kaal Singh and your bhen ji, please read the above post very carefully.
Try to be humble and accept that having nice physical darshans in no way sachkhand. Sachkhand is way above 5 tat, so is karam khand and sharam khand. Gyan khand has many different types of 5tat as stated in sri japji sahib.
At the most these physical darshans could be some heavenly abode in dharam khand because I have read about the anand of gyan khand in bhai sahib's "sackhand darshan" book. Your experiences cannot even be in gyan khand because of the maha anand prakaash which is brighter then millions of suns and the millions upon millions of indescribale beautiful naads resounding there. Another possiblity is maya has created a sargun type illusion to keep one away from the nirgun destination.
In ego you may be stubborn and believe you are in sachkhand despite the above information. But remember only one completley without haumai can reach sachkhand!
I wrote this post as I fear kaal singh's and singhani miripiri's posts may brainwash youth and lead other gursikhs reading this forum into lower levels of gurmat spirituality.