Excellent write up, Sahib Singh jeeo. Very inspiring.
The title of this post is from a Shayer of Allama Iqbal the famous philosopher and poet who wrote many great Ghazals and Nazams in the pre-1947 period when Hindustan was ruled by the British. I remember the Shayers as follows:
ਖ਼ੁਦ ਹੀ ਕੋ ਕਰ ਬੁਲੰਦ ਇਤਨਾ ਕਿ ਹਰ ਤਕਦੀਰ ਸੇ ਪਹਿਲੇ।
ਖ਼ੁਦਾ ਬੰਦੇ ਸੇ ਯੇਹ ਪੂਛੇ ਬੋਲ ਤੇਰੀ ਰਜ਼ਾ ਕਿਆ ਹੈ।(Make yourself so high or lofty that before writing your Qismat (destiny), God may ask you, what is your wish O Man).
ਸਿਤਾਰੋਂ ਸੇ ਆਗੇ ਜਹਾਂ ਅਉਰ ਭੀ ਹੈਂ।
ਅਭੀ ਇਸ਼ਕ ਕੇ ਇਮਤਿਹਾਂ ਅਉਰ ਭੀ ਹੈਂ।(There are worlds beyond the stars. There are yet more tests of love for you).
ਤੂ ਸ਼ਾਹੀਂ ਹੈ ਪਰਵਾਜ਼ ਹੈ ਕਾਮ ਤੇਰਾ।
ਤੇਰੇ ਸਾਮਨੇ ਅਭੀ ਆਸਮਾਂ ਅਉਰ ਭੀ ਹੈਂ।(You are a Baaz (falcon) and flying is your duty. Still there are more skies in front of you (to fly))
More than 20 years ago, I had a debate on this Shayer, with a Pakistani friend who was a very intelligent person. I argued that such a concept as described in this poetic couplet was alien to Sikhs where Khuda (God) has to seek permission from us before writing our destiny. I said that this Shayer amounted to doing Shirqat of Vaheguru. He laughed and said that Shirqat in Islam was a major sin. He asked me to look at the Shayer from a different angle. He said that it was all a game of love. When a Faqir (Bhagat) becomes a Majzoob (one with Allah), then out of love, Allah does not do anything against the wish of his Majzoob. He considers the wishes of his Bhagats before deciding anything for them. I did understand his point back then, but because of my Aham (ego) I could not surrender and continued to argue with him. Deep inside, I knew he was correct but did not want to accept my defeat. Such a force is this Haume or Aham. What a loving person this Pakistani fellow was. In his young age, he had so much wisdom. I lost contact with him soon after and have never met him again.
This post brought back some very beautiful memories of the past. Thanks for sharing.
Kulbir Singh