Veer Sukhdeep Singh ji, there is no way that in Chauraasi Lakh Joon, one is to not go through pain. This is impossible.
Whether cows are mistreated, sent to slaughterhouses, it is not in our control. Those that do this, will themselves have to be reincarnated as cows and go through the same maltreatment. Where does it end? Yes it is true, that in Khalsa Raaj, all beings, including cows, would be given proper treatment, and fed properly.
I recall a Sakhi of one of the Bhagats (can't seem to recall which one it was at the moment). This Bhagat was a butcher, due to his Karams. One day, a customer showed up at his shop and asked for a "goat leg", to this the Bhagat replied, if he only cut off the leg of the goat, then the goat would have rot, but the customer only wanted the leg of the goat. So, being a butcher, he grabbed a ?knife?
and proceeded to fulfill the demand of the customer. As he approached the goat, he felt as if the goat was laughing at him and saying
"for countless lives, we have been killing each other. Sometimes you were a goat, and I was the butcher, I would kill you, then you were a butcher, and I was a goat, and you would kill me. But today, you are starting another Karma. If you cut my leg off today, for which I would suffer for and eventually die, I would have to do the same to you, and you too would have to undergo the same consequences. So you decide."To this, the Bhagat dropped the idea, and returned to tell the customer that he couldn't do this task, but the customer had dissapeared by then.
The moral of the above story is, we are all stuck in Karma. No one can get out of it, unless we do intense Kamaai of Naam-Baani. If you think that abstaining from consuming dairy products would cut the Karmas of the cows, or by taking in dairy products, you are adding Paap on yourself, you are mistaken friend. Such things should not be worried. The main purpose for which cows have been created by Vaheguroo, is to give milk. And it this milk, which can be used to make other dairy products. To put milk and eggs in the same category, because both cows and chickens are farm animals, is complete arrogance, idiocy. Livestock are not produced from milk. Whereas, the yolk inside the egg shell eventually sprouts to become a full live chick. You remind of this scene from Chandi Di Vaar, where the Demons were being reproduced from their own blood. But, milk does not work that way, and even if through milk, more cows being born, isn't that benefit for the society?
Or am I going totally going off topic here?
The bottom line is, If Guroo Sahib ji has said in Siri Asa Ki Vaar, that through clarified butter, the food or the mouth becomes Pavit(Pure/Shudh)
ਅੰਨੁ ਦੇਵਤਾ ਪਾਣੀ ਦੇਵਤਾ ਬੈਸੰਤਰੁ ਦੇਵਤਾ ਲੂਣੁ ਪੰਜਵਾ ਪਾਇਆ ਘਿਰਤੁ ॥
The corn is sacred, the water is sacred; the fire and salt are sacred as well; when the fifth thing, the ghee, is added,
ਤਾ ਹੋਆ ਪਾਕੁ ਪਵਿਤੁ ॥
then the food becomes pure and sanctified.
If Guroo Sahib has said that it is OK and even FUNDAMENTAL to consume dairy products, that's it, ਪੱਥਰ ਤੇ ਲਕੀਰ! Why should we start thinking of ourselves as better or higher than Guroo Sahib. If cows are going through pain, it is because of their previous Karma. I'm sorry, but we can't change that. They have to go through it. Eventually, it is Satguroo ji-Vaheguroo Himself, who is causing pain and suffering. We shouldn't worry so much about it. In fact, Siri Sukhmani Sahib, Satguroo Siri Guru Arjun Dev Ji Mahaaraaj has said it all:
ਮਨ ਮੂਰਖ ਕਾਹੇ ਬਿਲਲਾਈਐ ॥
O foolish mind, why do you cry and bewail?
ਪੁਰਬ ਲਿਖੇ ਕਾ ਲਿਖਿਆ ਪਾਈਐ ॥
You shall obtain your pre-ordained destiny.
ਦੂਖ ਸੂਖ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਦੇਵਨਹਾਰੁ ॥
God is the Giver of pain and pleasure.
ਅਵਰ ਤਿਆਗਿ ਤੂ ਤਿਸਹਿ ਚਿਤਾਰੁ ॥
Abandon others, and think of Him alone.
ਜੋ ਕਛੁ ਕਰੈ ਸੋਈ ਸੁਖੁ ਮਾਨੁ ॥
Whatever He does - take comfort in that.
ਭੂਲਾ ਕਾਹੇ ਫਿਰਹਿ ਅਜਾਨ ॥
Why do you wander around, you ignorant fool?
ਕਉਨ ਬਸਤੁ ਆਈ ਤੇਰੈ ਸੰਗ ॥
What things did you bring with you?
ਲਪਟਿ ਰਹਿਓ ਰਸਿ ਲੋਭੀ ਪਤੰਗ ॥
You cling to worldly pleasures like a greedy moth.
ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮ ਜਪਿ ਹਿਰਦੇ ਮਾਹਿ ॥
Dwell upon the Lord's Name in your heart.
ਨਾਨਕ ਪਤਿ ਸੇਤੀ ਘਰਿ ਜਾਹਿ ॥4॥
O Nanak, thus you shall return to your home with honor. ||4||If Gursikhs should stop consuming dairy products, then we should also conclude that breast feeding should be banned, because sometimes the baby is so clung onto the mother's breast, that the baby just wouldn't let go. After all, breast milk is also the blood of the mother, which becomes, with Guru ji's Kirpaa and His Chamatkaar (Miracle), becomes milk. Should we conclude that to free moms from this task, babies should not be fed breast milk? But then again, the baby has to be fed milk somehow, most likely goat milk, but oops, goats are going through pain, so let's just make the baby suffer and die off, but then the baby the baby suffers...where does it end? It's all Karma friend!
I'm sorry, but Sukhdeep Singh Bhai Sahib, we mere creatures/beings/mortals can not ever take over the job of Satguroo Sachaa Patshaah (and not Sachi Patshaah). Vaheguoo Ji eventually is the doer of all things, to conclude if I stop, in your case, stop consuming dairy products, I am reducing the pain the cows have to go through. For sure, you have to go through a lot of pain and suffering, you most likely have Karams that hinder you from enjoying some of the comforts and pleasures of life, so if I was to give up one comfort/pleasure for the sake of you, does it mean, you now suddenly start enjoying the pleasures/comforts you probably had never dreamt of? I guess not, but then, if Vaheguroo Ji Wills, then maybe yea.
Let's look at what Satguroo Shiri Guru Naanak Dev Ji Mahaaraaj Sachaa Patshaah ji is saying:
ਸਲੋਕੁ ਮਃ 1 ॥
ਸਹੰਸਰ ਦਾਨ ਦੇ ਇੰਦ੍ਰੁ ਰੋਆਇਆ ॥
ਪਰਸ ਰਾਮੁ ਰੋਵੈ ਘਰਿ ਆਇਆ ॥
ਅਜੈ ਸੁ ਰੋਵੈ ਭੀਖਿਆ ਖਾਇ ॥
ਐਸੀ ਦਰਗਹ ਮਿਲੈ ਸਜਾਇ ॥
ਰੋਵੈ ਰਾਮੁ ਨਿਕਾਲਾ ਭਇਆ ॥
ਸੀਤਾ ਲਖਮਣੁ ਵਿਛੁੜਿ ਗਇਆ ॥
ਰੋਵੈ ਦਹਸਿਰੁ ਲੰਕ ਗਵਾਇ ॥ ਜਿਨਿ ਸੀਤਾ ਆਦੀ ਡਉਰੂ ਵਾਇ ॥
ਰੋਵਹਿ ਪਾਂਡਵ ਭਏ ਮਜੂਰ ॥ ਜਿਨ ਕੈ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਰਹਤ ਹਦੂਰਿ ॥
ਰੋਵੈ ਜਨਮੇਜਾ ਖੁਇ ਗਇਆ ॥
ਏਕੀ ਕਾਰਣਿ ਪਾਪੀ ਭਇਆ ॥
ਰੋਵਹਿ ਸੇਖ ਮਸਾਇਕ ਪੀਰ ॥
ਅੰਤਿ ਕਾਲਿ ਮਤੁ ਲਾਗੈ ਭੀੜ ॥
ਰੋਵਹਿ ਰਾਜੇ ਕੰਨ ਪੜਾਇ ॥
ਘਰਿ ਘਰਿ ਮਾਗਹਿ ਭੀਖਿਆ ਜਾਇ ॥
ਰੋਵਹਿ ਕਿਰਪਨ ਸੰਚਹਿ ਧਨੁ ਜਾਇ ॥
ਪੰਡਿਤ ਰੋਵਹਿ ਗਿਆਨੁ ਗਵਾਇ ॥
ਬਾਲੀ ਰੋਵੈ ਨਾਹਿ ਭਤਾਰੁ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਦੁਖੀਆ ਸਭੁ ਸੰਸਾਰੁ ॥
ਮੰਨੇ ਨਾਉ ਸੋਈ ਜਿਣਿ ਜਾਇ ॥
ਅਉਰੀ ਕਰਮ ਨ ਲੇਖੈ ਲਾਇ ॥1॥
Therefore, to be a cow is already a suffering, and it is a 100% guarantee that whosoever ends up as a cow, or any animal, will have to suffer, because that person wasted their human life, and now has to go through this punishment. It is all Hukam Of Prabhu-Akaal Purakh-Vaheguroo-Guroo Saahib. You can not change that.
You live in California, I live in Toronto, I enjoy regular Sangat of Gurmukh Pyaare Tyaar-Bar-Tyaar Gursikhs, who are really Chardikala! It is my past Karams. It is Choji Satguroo ji's Marzi that he has placed so many amazing Chardikala Singhs in Toronto, who knows why? Now, do I have the capability to change the fact that you live in California? NO! It is all Vaheguroo ji's Marzi!
Who can change that? Maybe if I do Ardaas for you Bhai Sahib, then maybe things can change, again, that's up to Guroo Sahib, no one change that.
ਆਦਿ ਜੁਗਾਦਿ ਭਗਤਨ ਕਾ ਰਾਖਾ ਉਸਤਤਿ ਕਰਿ ਕਰਿ ਜੀਵਾ ॥
In the beginning, and throughout the ages, He is the Protector of His devotees. Praising Him continually, I live.
Therefore only Gursikhs are protected and saved jio!
Your post is not in line with Gurmat!
ਭੁੱਲਾਂ ਚੁੱਕਾਂ ਦੀ ਖ਼ਿਮਾਂ ਬਖ਼ਸ਼ਣੀ ਜੀ ਸੰਗਤੋਂ!
Vaheguroo JI kA KHalsa Vaheguroo Ji KI Fatheh!!!