Woow.. Thankyou Kulbir Paaji, even though you have pointed out some points about particular, I feel blessed in some way!! All of a sudden things are just clicking into placeby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Vaheguroooo.... Yess its rude not to say fateh to another sikh, but we just got to make sure we stay true to what is rightby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
This was something that was sent to me, i found it so inspring Sarbloh Bibek Is an additional rehit which has been here since the beginning of sikhi and was introduced by Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Sarbloh Bibek is a great rehit which was forgotten as time went on. Many great Gursikhs such as Bhai Sahib Randhir Singh Ji kept this rehit seriously and strictly. However, this rehit is not a necby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Vaheguroooo.. If everything is written for us..and if everything we do is written, then why are we here? Just confusing, if everything was in maharaj's hands, then we would all go to sach kand wouldn’t we? aren’t we here to prove ourselves? – that’s what I’m real trying to say sorry if im wrong gupt singhniby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Vaheguroooo .... Im used to wearing keki now. i find it hard to put it over my ears .... but i do wear ear muffsby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Vaheguroooooo ... I think I know who you are on about, iv just spent 2 months in india in the summer, and I got all my banna made from Chaman Lal,I think he is a elder singh ? - am i right in thinking that? The guy that owns the store it’s very small that’s sonu I think, and its near a paagri shop! Its says Sonu on top of the shop! Its hard to find it at first due it being on a side stby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Vaheguroooo… This peenjis situation is very similar to mine. My family also didn’t let me do saangaat with anyone, and struggled to understand that in order for my sikhi to develop I need to be around gursikhs. I understand what she is going thru, I myself craved for saangat – having that thirst to spend more time with saangat. I think you did give the right advise to her, she shouldby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguroooo... Yes i was taking iron supplements, but not anymore! Where is the best place to store the baate to avoid it getting rusty? What foods would you suggests I make till my stomach gets used to the change? I tried making something again and the same happened again I will tell the doctor soon as I get a chance, don’t want to drift away from sarbloh now, my set to do it. Its aby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguroooo....thankyou paaaji for thatby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Wahegurooo.. Yes is was from a Laridaar Saroop, and im sure it was from the left hand side also. So its just having faith watever he has answered will happen in good time? gupt singhniby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Mehtab Singh, thank you for sharing that, its actually made see a little differently now, I’m doing ardaas all the time, I don’t want to be in this situation, nor do I want these thoughts, hence why i said this dukh inside of me! What more can I do feel that peace inside of me again? I’m struggling at the moment, but I won’t give up until I reach that point again! Gupt singhniby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguroo... Thankyou for replies, not just love marriages are failing but a lot off arranged marriages are falling too, if we look at jatha at this moment in time, so many jatha marriages have failed and the numbers are increasing I did mention that my sikhi has got better, my amrith vella getting stronger and naam abiyaas too, not only that but I do feel GuruJi is pushing me in a certaiby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguroooo… What if someone has taken hukhamnaama out and laava comes out three times?? What is guru ji saying to you? Gupt singhniby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Wahegurooo... Just to touch one what Unjaan said, i have also noticed too, that some will get up and leave, and its has even come to that stage where not just in a Akand Paat but also in a kirten darbaar too!! Doesn’t this show ego within someone! As pointed out already despite the minor differences we should have respect for one another, we should use what unites us all, then what separatesby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Wahegurooo... Dont forget to love youself, its only then you can start to have pyaar with baani and sangaat and Guruji. What leafy and gupt singho said is very good advice too, since they have been through it themselves. Try and take a different approach maybe, when i was in school i was surrounded by all sorts, we all know how things are very different in school – yes maya is at its highby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
This dukh inside of me.. Recently I have gone through a lot of changes; my whole world has flipped upside down. Due to some events that have happened to me, I’ve got a lot of dukhi inside me. I was so happy at one stage in my life, I got to that point where I knew who I was, what I needed to do to build my jeeven up, getting into university, and realizing who my true sangaat was, I evenby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguroooo... Recently I have been talking about sarbloh bibek with others and know ones really told me about a minimum rehit people have just mentioned to keep your amrith vella strong and do your naam abiyaas!! If there was a minimum rehit, wouldn't it be your 7 Banni's a day and your naaam abyiaas?? - I could be wrong!! :/ gupt singhniby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
she’s got that glow about her huna...you can tell shes happy, and wow doesn’t she look so different with a dumalla, what a transformationby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
I respect her honesty, the athma topic was something personally i wanted to know about.by gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguroooo !!! Wooow what a sorry!! ''I knew I was blindly in love with this man, having never spoken a word to him''.. is that even possible ?? Can two peoples Athma's be that connected - when they just know there meant to be together? When two people know there ment to be for each other, does sikhi say anything against having this feeling? Or even having pyar for someone? gupt singby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguroooo , Yes I did clean the bata I ate from and the spoon too, I even ate it straight away. I’m just a bit scared to have anything from sarbloh, my stomach was pretty bad I spoke to couple of people about it, one singh said that the sauce reacts with the sarbloh.. is this true?? I really want to get used to it Also a singh told me that you clean the bata with sand, can someby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Gurfatehhh jio, I made my first sarbloh meal; I cooked something simple like pasta! I cleaned everything the bata and the ingredients. I ate the pasta straight away, but towards the end it tasted very tangy, not the normal taste I’m used too! Is this normal? also I felt like after I was about to be sick! I don’t know what to do; I’m a little scared now eating from sarbloh again dueby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Beautiful Wahegurooo, Wise words you used, well said. Don’t forget they say its the puppet which will be rewarded with a applause. His beautiful hand that control us – it‘s this that guides us. But if we had no control over what we do, why are we here? I’m sure Guru Ji gave us free will and a choice in life! Again what a beautiful poem. gupt singhniby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Gurfateh Ji, Guru Ji has given the best 'Logo'...the khandha...that is the Khalsa Panth logo, if AKJ create a logo to represent us, I think we are just going to open doors for people to name and shame Jatha! Were not showing Ekta? its just another way to separatee us even more from everyone else. We should concentrate more on doing more kaami and doing more seva to represent Jatha - thisby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Gurfatehhh jio, I made my first sarbloh meal today; I cooked something simple like pasta! I cleaned everything the bata and the ingredients. I ate the pasta straight away, but towards the end it tasted very tangy, not the normal taste I’m used too! Is this normal? also I felt like after I was about to be sick! I don’t know what to do; I’m a little scared now eating from sarbloh agaby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
What do i do when my family go against me? How can I try to make them undertstand? It's easier said then done! iv been ignoring them and just doing what I think is right, iv been doing that my whole life, thats why im the only amrithdhari in my family .. gupt singhniby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Trilochan Paaji, i have recently become bibek and finding hard to do so as i live n study in Uni! I have always wanted to do it, and now I thinks its my time to start practicing and keeping it, however I struggle to keep it when im in uni, and esp when im with family. As I come from a family that are non- gursikh, and all are moniee, my family will take offence if I don’t eat their food which aby gupt singhni - Gurmat Discussion Forum