Living life according to Gurbani means living life according to Gurmat. Gurmat tells us to live life like a lotus. Here's a short post with practical tips on how to do that: https://www.sikhfamilylife.com/2018/08/living-life-like-a-lotus/by Sakhee Kaur - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Bhai Guriqbal Singh Ji recommends Gurti ASAP after birth, but details a slightly different process than that described above. This blogpost covers Bhai Sahib Jee's recommendations and why Gurti is important. I know this is an old post, but it still pops up when people search for this topic. That's why I figured it'd be best to share this information on this same thread.by Sakhee Kaur - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! Veer Ji, from my limited understanding, it's always best to do Seva ourselves. Additionally, I think that Guru Sahib Ji has SO many Rumalla Sahibs that are given as Seva. From what I understand, it would be much better to go to Gurdwara and do Seva - Jorreh (Shoe) Seva, Charru Seva, washing dishes, helping to prepare langar, etc. Also, making a habiby Sakhee Kaur - Gurmat Discussion Forum
There is Baanee in this blogpost (https://www.sikhfamilylife.com/2018/05/maa-de-farz-part-1/) from Bhagat Kabeer Jee in which Bhagat Kabeer Jee actually mentions miscarriages and stillbirths...by Sakhee Kaur - Gurmat Discussion Forum
GurFateh Veer Ji! Just wanted to echo the sentiments that have been already shared in this thread. Additionally, there may be some other things you and Bhain Jee can do. For more details, check out parts 1 and 2 of the Maa De Farz Series here: (it's an ongoing series, with posts published every other week)... Part 1: Part 2: I feel like part 2 may be of most interest to you atby Sakhee Kaur - Gurmat Discussion Forum