Waheguru ji, I won't get into detail but will say my father has done a very good job at showing us what horror is since childhood and I am in my mid 20s now. Sooner or later I will get married( if I can find any non drinker) but my fear is my brother and mother. Maybe or maybe not I will end up going into a peaceful house but I don't know how would I live knowing how much Kalesh my dad creates wby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Done. Thank youby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
And yes do Sangat.. Go to gurdwara do paath there, maybe other people will join too since when one is in pain, we all get close and help by putting our differences aside. There is a lot of power when Sangat does ardas . Thank youby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Sevak ji, I have been trying to accept everything as hukam but then there comes a point where if I have disappointed myself, I can't blame it on waheguru ji. For instance, I have hard time seeing me as a successful person, not that I want a lot of money, I just feel like I am not using my life properly. If I say I wanna spend most of my time reading gurbani and I end up watching little bit of TVby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
I am extremely sorry for the pain you must have been going though. Be positive front of her and tell her how gurbani can help her. If you become negative she will lose courage too. I once saw this movie, it's about real life miracles of gurbani. Watch it with her, and I repeat PLEASE watch it once with her and your husband too if possible. There is a one Story about a guy who was not even a Sby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Thank you Jp ji.. I do see a hope so hopefully waheguru ji is just testing us.. I have heard some Kathas over the hukam and destiny and it helped a lot to accept hukam. This channel and bhai satpal singh ji is amazing katha vachak, it might bring some peace. do listen to it and other from his channel too.. Thank you for replying. and will pray waheguru ji provide you peace tooby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguru Ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh! Me and Family has been going thorugh some tough time, Where both of my parents Lost their job and I am trying to get a Job too. Deep Down I know Waheguru ji will take care of us but my mind is so caught up in Negativity and Fear. Worry about them not getting a Job since they Can't speak English is making me sick to my stomach. I spent whole day cryiby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
I would Love to see it too..I found this interview about Bhai sahib ji. Might be new for some people.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Thank you unjaan ji.. I hope one day I can spend atleast few days to be there all the time and connect deeply with my roots.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Thank you BSRS ji!by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
After searching the web it seems like that "jail chitian" and "autobiography of bhai sahib ji " are same books.. Is it? Sorry for my confused mind, I want to read this book so bad in English and if not available then I want to read in punjabi ( will take more time and effort) and translate in English. Thank you .by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
I have been trying to find bhai sahib bhai Randhir singh ji's book "jail chitian" in English but failed. Is it available in English? I am willing to buy it since I have heard so much about it. If it's not available in English I would love to translate it. I have a punjabi version and I want to start translating but if it's already available in English then I would pick another book. Please guideby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Thank you GurmanSingh ji..Your Example did explain me really well..It's true when I am starving how can I help others..I have to do more Kamayi first. Thank you Sevak ji..I wish I could know if I did any kamayi in previous life..by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Sat shri akal! I once heard this Katha and singh ji said that when one person read Gurbani or does simran, It can help their whole Family. The reason I am asking is because My father has been a very bad person when he is drunk, So most of his life he has spent hurting many people, family, and relatives.I try my best that he can use his rest of the life to get close to waheguru ji instead ofby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Thank you singh ji..I checked that website too so It will be okay. thank youby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Thank you everybody for replying..Now I have one more question..I will just ask here. I found a book called an autobiography of Bhai rama singh ji..It is in a pdf format so its free for everybody. i would like to create an audio version of it. Can I just go ahead and do that or it will be copyright issue? Or is the audiobook is already available? I would really appreciate the help. thankby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh I have a question about gurbani.. I have started doing chaupai sahib ji and sometime I play it and it seems like there are soo many version of it. Sometime it is up to dusht dokh tey leyo bachayi.. But after that comes soo many lines too and then comes sawainya.. And then Doha Also I have noticed that in rehraas sahib ji too.. My gutka sahib hasby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Youtube has so many informational videos about "Harminder sahib Ji". I would say while you are there let your feelings and heart works..Put mind and brain for aside. You can come back and know about it from internet. Sit and listen to the spiritual prayers "Kirtan". I wish you have an amazing experince over there.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
I can give you a personal example..I told one of my freinds brother that her girlfreind is cheating on him. In my mind I wanted to help him and it back fired me so bad that now both girl and that guy is harrasing me.And she was cheating on him. I only let him know because his cousin made me.. I have heard so many bad things, I have been threatened, harrassed, and all the things a person can do oby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
I read the ingredients..I could not find anyhing bad so I guess yes!!!by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Taksal ji.. thanks for replying.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguru jee ka khalsa, waheguru jee ke fateh! I have always had a fear of driving and have been struggling since ages, I am 26, I have been trying since I was 19. I don't now how to conquer my fear, No license is eating me up everyday since ages. Somebody please tell me is there any paath or shabad I can do to get rid of my fear? I live in a place where without license, I am handicapped. Iby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Thank you trust singh jee..I like this book, This is something i was looking for,.... so really appreciate you guiding me to this book. thank you.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Than you singh jee.. I will deftly do that thank you.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
thank you gagansingh jee..I was in pain that day but now I have done a lot of path and feel little better. You are right, I will keep doing paath and do naam simran. I won't give up the way I have done in past many times. thank you.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
I just discovered him about few weeks ago and he is an awesome teacher and gursikh. I am glad he did a video on it. Thanks for sharing .by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguru kee ka Khalsa, waheguru Jee kee fateh! I found this website which has many books in English and punjabi. It's in PDF format. And also can someone suggest me a book to read. I have never read a book, I have listened to katha a lot. I would like to read a book which will build my faith more in gurbani and Gurmukh jeevan. I am a beginner, I do paath and listen to kirtan only.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Waheguru jee ka khalsa, waheguru jee kee fateh! I know that our past karam affect our life in a big way, I dont really understand the concept of karma but I'll take othe rpeoples word on it. So my question is, why some people receive help and white others don't? I have a friend and their family knows a Mahapurkh, they call them baba jee and he tells me how baba jee helps so many people. Receby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Thank you csingh jee..I agree there is an ealry and late stage and I am not on late stage yet. thank youby Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum
Yea.. They should be allowed.. Everybody have the right to be at Gurdwara sahib.by Lostsoul. - Gurmat Discussion Forum