ਸਤਿਗੁਰਬਚਨਕਮਾਵਣੇਸਚਾਏਹੁਵੀਚਾਰੁ॥
Welcome! Log In Create A New Profile

Advanced

5 Worldly Reasons to become a Gursikh

Posted by GurmanSingh 
5 Worldly Reasons to become a Gursikh

Amrit is the first step for a human being on his spiritual journey towards meeting Akal Purakh. However, many individuals are hesitant to take this first step in fear of how they’re lives will change. They may fear waking up and having to sacrifice sleep. They be scared to have to explain to their friends and family why they choose such a lifestyle. Or they may just feel like their lives will become dull and boring. I assure you, this is not the case! Only by taking Amrit will you realize how better life is as a Gursikh. Here are 5 reasons why you should not fear taking Amrit.

5) The Food
Society has really downgraded its food consciousness and this problem is turning into an epidemic across the world. Unhealthy, disgusting food is readily available at any corner fast-food joint or restaurant and people have stopped eating home cooked meals. It's no wonder obesity and related diseases are so common. Becoming a Gursikh you will no longer have this option and your whole will change for the better. It will also encourage you to learn the art of cooking. The feeling you will get by preparing and serving langar is one that you can only experience by taking Amrit. And if you find little joy in this, than sit, relax and enjoy all the delicious cooked meals you won't find anywhere else.

4) The learning experience
A Gursikh is someone who is always learning and there is an unending amount of knowledge and skills that you will need to acquire. You will find yourself constantly wanting to learn a new Shabad to read, memorize or learn the meaning to. Learning musical skills associated with Keertan, including different Raags and Taals(beats) or actively physically training with Martial Arts, particularly related to Gatka(Sikh Swordsmanship). If you are an unactive person it will encourage you to do more and if you like learning new things than you will never be bored again.

3) The experience of Amritvela
If you ask any normal person what time of day they like best, you will not get the response of "between 1-5am." This is when most people are sleeping (unless they are partying-but in any case they enjoy this time for all the wrong reasons) and want nothing to do with Japping Naam, reading Gurbani or doing Keertan. The feeling of waking early in the morning and doing bhagtee is unmatched and one we can only do consistently with the blessing of Guru Sahib.

2) The Sangat
You can think of many relatives or friends who treated you badly or had a negative impact in your life. We live in a world where the only thing people care for is themselves and finding a true friend is difficult. By taking Amrit you will join a family and be received with unconditional love. The love that Gursikhs have for each is a unique bond and you cannot experience outside of Sikh. Being in such positive sangat will also encourage you to be a better person yourself.

1) Your Children will be raised as Gursikhs
Who doesn’t worry about the future of their children. From the time a child is born, the only thought that a parent has is how they can keep their children happy and protected from danger. Raising your children as Gursikhs will teach your children values they won't be able to acquire anywhere else. With crime, drugs and other problems so commonplace the best way to shield your children from these evils is to raise them as Gursikhs. And you will benefit from his not only in this world but the next as well.

All aspects of your life will change for the better, so don’t let anything stop you from taking the first step towards what is essentially your permanent freedom. Your eternal connection with the One. A life as a Gursikh will give you happiness in this world and the next.

Gurman Singh
Reply Quote TweetFacebook
Excellent topic Gurman Singh. Taking lead from your post, here are some worldly benefits that came to my mind:

Some of the worldly reasons or benefits of becoming a Gursikh are as follows for me:

1) Food: The food that a Gursikh eats is about as pure as food can get. Gursikhs are Bibeki as per Hukam of Guru Sahib; therefore they have to prepare their own food using basic raw materials. This ensures that the food they eat is natural as opposed to cooked or processed food that most of the world eats now a days. They eat food that is cooked and canned many months ago. Food from unscrupulous sources can be very tainted and harmful for health. On the other hand, the food a Gursikh eats is pure which results in better health for Gursikhs. Few years ago, when we were visiting India, Sarblohi Gursikhs there, prepared special pinnies made of Khoya for us. I happened to visit my uncle there and let him taste one of the pinnies. The reaction from my uncle after eating the pinny was very dramatic. He wailed that he had tasted pure khoya after many decades. He said that it had brought back old memories of his childhood when his grandmother used to make khoya at home. He said that the barfi and other khoya related sweets he had been eating for last many years tasted different and was most probably adulterated. At that point I remembered the famous Salok of Bhagat Kabir jee: ਸੰਤਹੁ ਮਾਖਨੁ ਖਾਇਆ ਛਾਛਿ ਪੀਐ ਸੰਸਾਰੁ ॥18॥ (The Sants eat butter while the rest of the world drinks whey)

2) Freedom from Drugs: As an Amritdhari, one naturally gets saved from the evils of liquor, tobacco and other drugs because these things are prohibited to Gursikhs. A Gursikh is naturally saved from these problems and ailments related to their consumption. Many fights and quarrels in the family are because of liquor and Gursikhs who always stay sane, are saved from these problems.

3) Good Spouse: This should be the most motivating point for most bachelors out there who are contemplating becoming Gursikhs. As a Gursikh you get a good spouse whom you can trust. With infidelities rampant in today’s world, your spouse who would be a practicing Gursikh like yourself, will have much higher probability of being a faithful and loving life partner as opposed to a worldly couple. If the couple does Amritvela and keeps Siri Guru Dasmesh jee's Rehit, then they are blessed with everlasting love and care for each other which results in a very happy marital life.

4) Liberation from Fashion: Gursikhs get liberated from the shackles of the fashion world. You no longer have to buy latest fashion suits for your spouse nor you have to buy expensive ornaments of gold and silver because Gursikhs don’t subscribe to worldly fashion. Rehitvaan Gursikhs only wear Gurmukhi Baani, which stays unaffected by fashion. Your Gurmukhi Baana, sewn with good quality cloth should last many years. Some of my Cholay are sewn from fabric bought from DCM (India) are still as good as new, after almost 18 years. You can't get such loyalty from any other kind of clothes.

5) No Rat Race: As Gursikhs, your focus changes from accumulating worldly wealth to amassing spiritual Naam wealth; therefore, a Gursikh gets freed from the race to buy expensive homes, luxury cars etc. A Gursikh stays contented with basic food, shelter and clothing. In order to maintain basic necessities of life, a Gursikh does not have to live for work rather he works to sustain his living. This frees up a lot of time that can be spent on Bhagti and with your family and loved ones.

6) Intrinsic Bliss: If a Gursikh does Sidhi of Naam, then he gets freed from diseases and sorrows. Life gets filled with bliss and happiness. Even in the apparent states of sorrow, a Gursikh retains an inherent happiness within his self. This results in freedom from stress and depression that stem from worrying about worldly conditions. One feels protection of Vaheguru jee all the time, resulting in emancipation from worldly stress and depression.

Moral of the story is that if you are reading this and are not Amritdhari yet, get Pesh at the next Samagam and become an Amritdhari.

Kulbir Singh
Reply Quote TweetFacebook
I would also add hygiene. Gursikhi jeevan teaches to be clean inside and out. Hygiene is a very big plus, prevents illness and diseases and cold shower is very good. Also, identity/roop. I think only those who tie a dastaar know the feeling, but when you tie it on you feel like the king of the world! Nothing can get in your way. The dastaar and beard make others take note, just like the sher when it walks through the jungle.
Reply Quote TweetFacebook
Great posts by Bhai Gurman Singh and Bhai Kulbir Singh.

Here are a few of the worldly benefits that came to my mind while reading the above posts.

1. Gursikhs Look Really Cool

Who looks cooler than a Gursikh in Gurmukhi Bana? No one. By becoming a Gursikh we get to look cool as well with cool Dastars and amazing Daray and majestic looking Bana. So who wouldn't want to become a Gursikh if you get to be so cool looking?

2. Shastars

As Gursikhs we get to keep Shastars and who doesn't love Shastars?

Preetam Singh
Reply Quote TweetFacebook
Oh yeah! Shastar! love shastar.
Reply Quote TweetFacebook
Adding to Liberation from Fashion and raising Gursikh Children. You don't have to worry about the new fashion clothing for your kids. Plus Bana is so gender neutral that it can be passed down to your other kids. My baby Bhujangee wears mostly all his sister's Cholay. Funny enough it will create no fights amongst them as well over who gets the best clothes..haha
Reply Quote TweetFacebook
Sorry, only registered users may post in this forum.

Click here to login