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Where did this idea come from that kamaaee is split 50/50 in dargah even if there are differences in the spirituality of each spouse? Is there anything to back this up? So a highly spiritual bibi loses lots of her kamaaee, possibly even up to half if she's married to a lousy Singh? Doesn't seem like a fair system. What if there's a Singh who does lots of kamaaee and he's married to a bibi who's not very adept at housework? Does the 50/50 split still happen?
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One more thing, drawing on Bhai Sahib and his Singhnee as an analogy doesn't always work because it would be extremely rare to be at their level. Bhai Sahib's Singhnee would not hold any resentments if she had to do all house work or if she had to feed unexpected guests, etc. but not all bibiaan are like that. Just something to keep in mind. It might not be helpful to pretend like we're Bhai Sahib and that our bibiaan are like Mata Kartar Kaur when doing so might not be in keeping with reality.
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