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How to get our wishes fulfilled?

Posted by Kulbir Singh 
Siri Guru jee states in Gurbani that if you want to have your work done, ask Vaheguru for it and Vaheguru in return gets your tasks done, this is the witness of the true Guru. There is however only one condition. Meet Sant Gursikhs and in their sangat taste the treasure Naam Amrit. Once you are done with that, Siri Guru jee states that destroyer of fear, kind and benevolent Vaheguru will certainly keep the honour of his servant. Then when one’s desires are fulfilled, sing the praises of Vaheguru (i.e. do kirtan of Gurbani) and this way comprehend the incomprehensible Vaheguru (Alakh Prabh Laakhiye). Below is the Shabad that proves the above written:

ਪਉੜੀ ॥ ਕੀਤਾ ਲੋੜੀਐ ਕੰਮੁ ਸੁ ਹਰਿ ਪਹਿ ਆਖੀਐ ॥
ਕਾਰਜੁ ਦੇਇ ਸਵਾਰਿ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਸਚੁ ਸਾਖੀਐ ॥
ਸੰਤਾ ਸੰਗਿ ਨਿਧਾਨੁ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ ਚਾਖੀਐ ॥
ਭੈ ਭੰਜਨ ਮਿਹਰਵਾਨ ਦਾਸ ਕੀ ਰਾਖੀਐ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਹਰਿ ਗੁਣ ਗਾਇ ਅਲਖੁ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਲਾਖੀਐ ॥20॥


Whatever kind of relationship we develop with Vaheguru, that is how we get treated back. If we think of Vaheguru as a friend, then he’s our friend. If we want to be his son, then rights and responsibilities of son have to be carried on by us. The only exemption is that if we take him to be our enemy, he does not become our enemy. Vaheguru knows not evil. He does not harbour ill feelings.

Before asking for a boon from Vaheguru or asking to fulfill our desire, it is foremost to establish that the wish we seek to be granted is in accordance to Gurmat. It must be a fair desire. If we were to ask for sinful luxury, then it will not be fulfilled. Second thing to believe is that Vaheguru IS there ( he exists) and will listen to our Ardaas, The third thing that not only does he exist and listen to our ardaas but he is also capable of fulfilling our wish. The last but not least important thing is to have faith in our ardaas. Faith in Vaheguru is an amazing quality that acts as a catalyst in fulfilling our ardaas. These conditions can come in full potency only if we japp Naam and recite Gurbani. More Naam we japp and more paath we do, greater our faith will be in Vaheguru.

Many times, the impediment in fulfilling our desire is our bad karma from past. In such case, it’s important to do paath and simran to burn or eradicate this bad karma. If there is no bad karma, there is nothing stopping us from getting our fair desire fulfilled. It’s written in Gurbani that ‘ਗੁਰ ਕਾ ਸਬਦੁ ਕਾਟੈ ਕੋਟਿ ਕਰਮ ॥’ The Shabad of Guru i.e. Naam obtained from Guru eradicates millions of Karma. Once the hurdle of bad karma is cleared through Naam, the desire of our heart is fulfilled.

Getting the sangat to do an ardaas for can be very beneficial. The parents of Hira Harbachan Singh were very worried because their son had become an atheist. They requested Gursikhs to do ardaas for their son and they themselves too did ardaas all the time. Sooner than later, the time came when their son was hit by the arrows of Gurbani and he just lay there, unable to move. One can't help remembering this Salok of Bhagat Kabir jee when thinking of the condition of Hira Harbachan Singh jee when he heard Gurbani kirtan while walking outside the house where Kirtan Samagam was going on:

ਕਬੀਰ ਸਾਚਾ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਮੈ ਮਿਲਿਆ ਸਬਦੁ ਜੁ ਬਾਹਿਆ ਏਕੁ ॥
ਲਾਗਤ ਹੀ ਭੁਇ ਮਿਲਿ ਗਇਆ ਪਰਿਆ ਕਲੇਜੇ ਛੇਕੁ ॥157॥


He heard Gurbani while walking outside on the road. The arrows of Gurbani, coming from the mouth of Ranglay Sajjans associated with Bhai Sahib Randhir Singh jee were unbearable and they pierced into his heart. He could not move. He got totally absorbed in Gurbani. He just sat there on the road and instantly went into smadhi. Gursikhs took notice of him and lifted him up and he was brought inside the sangat and he was so engrossed in Gurbani Kirtan that he lost consciousness of the world. In this condition an Amrit Sinchaar samagam was planned there and then. Hira Harbachan Singh took amrit and with first shot of amrit drops in his mouth, he attained the darshan of Vaheguru. In case of Hira Harbachan Singh, his past life’s bhagti must have been immense but certainly, the ardaas by his parents and other Gursikhs affected him and he was changed from an atheist to a Mahapurakh Gursikh.

There are countless examples in history when Ardaas changed people’s lives. All Gursikhs can vouch for this. They experience miracles on regular basis in their lives. This makes them even more thankful and they with increased vigour japp more Naam and do more paath. Eventually, the life of Gursikhs becomes one dimensional. They just want to please Vaheguru and just japp Naam.

Here are some pankitis that tell us how our wishes can be fulfilled by Naam and Gurbani:

ਪ੍ਰਭ ਕੈ ਸਿਮਰਨਿ ਕਾਰਜ ਪੂਰੇ ॥ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਕੈ ਸਿਮਰਨਿ ਕਬਹੁ ਨ ਝੂਰੇ ॥
(through simran of Prabhu jee, all tasks or works are fulfilled. Through simran one never has to suffer disappointment).



ਜਹ ਮੁਸਕਲ ਹੋਵੈ ਅਤਿ ਭਾਰੀ ॥ ਹਰਿ ਕੋ ਨਾਮੁ ਖਿਨ ਮਾਹਿ ਉਧਾਰੀ ॥
(Where there is a problem that is very big, Naam of Hari can fix it in a moment)



ਸੰਤਹੁ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਆਰਾਧਹੁ ॥ ਹਰਿ ਆਰਾਧਿ ਸਭੋ ਕਿਛੁ ਪਾਈਐ ਕਾਰਜ ਸਗਲੇ ਸਾਧਹੁ ॥
(O Gursikh Santo, worship him through Naam (Har Har Har). By worshipping him obtain everything from him and have all your tasks fulfilled).



ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮੁ ਰਸੁ ਰਾਮ ਰਸਾਇਣੁ ਹਰਿ ਸੇਵਹੁ ਸੰਤ ਜਨਹੁ ॥
ਚਾਰਿ ਪਦਾਰਥ ਚਾਰੇ ਪਾਏ ਗੁਰਮਤਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਹਰਿ ਭਜਹੁ ॥

(O Sant Jano, Raam’s Naam is sweet, it’s the house of all delicious Rass (tastes, pleasures), therefore do sewa of such Naam i.e. Japp Such Naam. There are four basis essential substances and by japping Naam through the true Guru, you can obtain all of them.)


All that’s needed is kamaayee of Naam and Gurbani. There is nothing that one cannot obtain through Naam. All things are possible to God.


Some premis say that ardaas is not always fulfilled; therefore what's the point of doing ardaas. Just let things happen. All I know is that there is nothing that cannot be done through Naam. Yes, it is ultimately the vadd-kataakh i.e. graceful gaze of Vaheguru that will do that task but the way to get his graceful gaze is through Naam. As the matter of fact, the fact that a Gursikh is involved in japping Naam means that this Gursikh has that eye of grace of Guru Sahib. Otherwise, one would not have been blessed with Naam abhyaas. Many times it so happens that just before the fulfillment of the wish, a period comes when one is tested. Things become worse for a short period of time. Most give up during this period. One's who persevere are rewarded grandly. When Bhagat Naamdev jee was imprisoned by the Sultan and given ultimatem to either make alive a dead cow or face death, he went into deep meditation of Naam. When he continued in smadhi for 7 Gharees (about 2.5 hours) and nothing happened, he cried out:

ਸਾਤ ਘੜੀ ਜਬ ਬੀਤੀ ਸੁਣੀ॥ਅਜਹੁ ਨ ਆਇਓ ਤ੍ਰਿਭਵਣ ਧਣੀ॥14॥

He meditated more vigourously and then in the next moment Gobind was there. All his wishes were granted and plus he got darshan of Gobind.

If we stick to Naam in this period, our wish is sure to be fulfilled. Again, what this daas has written is very general and broad in perspective. There can be a million scenarios and what Guru Sahib does in those scenarios is known only by Guru Sahib but what we know are general guidelines based on Gurbani. If we japp Naam, then our wish that is not contrary to Gurmat must be fulfilled. We have been given hukam to japp like Bhagat Dhru who japped for 6 months and then did Raaj for 36000 years. He too went through a lot of testing and hardship before his wish was granted. He did ghor-tapasiya. The key is Naam Abhyaas. This insect who is writing this article has failed the test so many times. May Guru Sahib enable us to have full faith on Guru Sahib's Gurbani and Naam.

Kulbir Singh
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Great Writeup for a boost to have/build BHAROSA in Guru Sahib and also have one point of contact for all issues (Sansari and Parmarthi). We do need to understand few things i guess though

Everything happens for a Good

Guru Sahib is SAMRATH and only he knows good and bad for us , hence he is the best judge. Sometimes we may feel that a particular thing is good for us but the almighty (as he knows the entire lekha Jokha) might do even better for us which at that point may not look appropriate to us (as our sight to everything is limited). I have few happens that were upsetting me at times but now with the time, if i look back today , it seems everything he had planned had been perfect and nothing better could have been planned.

We few times do get frustated with little things if they dont go as per our expectations, but thats all seems AGIAYANTA (although i am the worst in this case) , I remember few years back - one of my freinds told me that he will never visit Golden Temple and the reason was AS his DAD has passed away !! So in a short sigthedness it looks Ok for a person to say so as we see this SANSAR as real and hope the Waheguru to do as we demand/seek. But if we look it from a Gurmukh's point of view -- 1) The death of a human is the only truth so it has to happen 2) A Gurmukh would rather start visiting the golden Temple daily looking at this mishap as he would understand this will happen to him as well thus opening his eye 3) He would have seen his father's emtpy hands as well , so on and so forth.


I also recall some Kathakar saying the following : Some Bibi went to a saint and complained the following

Why do i have GARIIBBI(poorness) at home even when i goto Gurdwara Sahib daily and my neighbour who never goes has a lot of money.

Beautiful answer from Saint which i cant forget :

"Only the Students of the class sit in exams (no matter intelligent or dull) , children from outside the class/school (who never attended the school) are not allowed to take the exams, no matter how intelligent they may be".



I also recall one first Physics class in college, the professor (Hindu Gentleman) came and to our surprise started lecturing on the BHAJJAN BANDGI. I dont say that its all as per Gurmat but there is a little lesson in it.


This is what he said which i remember


Guys you should always have faith in GOD (no matter what religion you belong to) for following reasons (And he said this is his experince of 55 yrs of life

--- If you have faith in god and pray then you dont hold yourself responsible for anything bad that happens during the phase of your life that saves you from sadness/depression

--- If you have faith in god and you pray and something good happens you dont get under the impression that you are the KARTA (saves you from excitements)


So it all happens as per our Karams (this Janam and previous Janams) so there is no reason for us to get upset over happenings of life as we have no sight of our bad Karamas. I guess the only way out is to Bend on to him and ask for Mercy.


Bhul Chukk Maaaf !!!
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Re: How to get our wishes fulfilled?
October 16, 2011 05:07PM
Vaheguroo
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Accounts of the power of Ardas can be found here - [www.gurmatbibek.com]

There are different types of Ardas (Sangati, personal etc), but all can have the same effect. A very short Ardas of an individual, even just a flash thought if it is totally sincere and full of faith can produce the desired results.

I've been told not to perform Ardas for the well being of others as it can decrease bhagti of the person performing Ardas. Is there any thruth in this?
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Re: How to get our wishes fulfilled?
October 17, 2011 03:40PM
Unjaan Wrote:
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> I've been told not to perform Ardas for the well
> being of others as it can decrease bhagti of the
> person performing Ardas. Is there any thruth in
> this?

i find issues with this statement - do you not find your self asking - does it fit in with the universal aspect of the Sikh Religion and sarbat da bhalla concept in the ardaas?
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I guess what this Gursikh Bibi was telling me is that we should not share the treasure of Kamayee so readily.
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