Guru Amar Das Ji gives hukum to always regard a fellow Sikh as a Guru Ka Sikh
despite a person making mistakes due to lack of knowledge of Maryada. Guru Sahib says
we should help teach them maryada and if they dont listen we should still regard them as a Guru Ka Sikh.
ਜੇ ਕੋਈ ਗੁਰੂ ਨਾਲਹੁਂ ਭੁਲਦਾ ਹੋਵੈ ਤਾਂ ਸਮਝਾਵਣਾ, ਆਪਣੀਅਹੁੰ ਧਿਰਹੁੰ ਆਖਣਾ I ਜੇ ਮੰਨੇ ਨਾਹੀ ਤਾਂ ਓਹ ਜਾਣੇ ਏਹੁ ਆਖਣਾ ਗੁਰੂ ਕਾ ਹੈ
It has always been a Khalsa tradition to treat others especially others with reverence.In Prem Sumarag Guru Sahib
mentions many points regarding this topic on veechar.
ਅਰੁ ਜਹਾਂ ਜਹਾਂ ਜਾਇ ਸੰਗੁ ਇਕੱਠੇ ਹੋਨੇ ਦਾ ਹੋਵੈ, ਉਥੈ ਆਪਸ ਮੈਂ ਅਦਬ ਭਾਓੁ ਪਿਆਰ ਕਰਨਾ। ਬੈਠਣਾ ਅਦਬ ਨਾਲਿ, ਬੋਲਣਾ ਅਦਬ ਨਾਲਿ, ਪ੍ਰਸ਼ਾਦ ਖਾਣਾ ਪੀਣਾ
ਅਦਬ ਨਾਲਿ। ਐਸਾ ਚ ਭਾਓੁ ਕਰਨਾ ਆਪਸ ਵਿਚਿ ਜੋ ਜੈਸਾ ਸਿਖ ਗੁਰੂ ਦਾ ਅਦਬ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ । ਬਹੁਤ ਬੋਲਣਾ ਨਾਹੀ। ਬਾਣੀ ਸਬਦ ਨਾਲਿ ਪਿਆਰ ਰਖਨਾ.
Prem Sumarag
Some of the points include
1. Talking to Gursikhs with pyaar
2. Talking to Gursikhs with respect
3. Not speaking so much, meaning not engaging in idle talk
4. Keep love for Gurbani and this should be kept in mind when discussing Sikhi.
Many times on this form I have had opposing views then the majority. I wish such Gursikhs would learn to respect my different viewpoint. We all have different backgrounds, different role models, and different sangat, thus, there is always going to be a difference of opinions.
I will confess that I have lost my patience at times when people question rehatnamey or Sri Dasam Granth. THis is really something
I cant control. Lately I have built more patience for such people but still I would request people not be so quick to question Gurbani/hukums.
Purpose of SIkhi is get Sikhs to regards Gurus Hukums as sweet and to follow them with devotion, the goal is not to cause doubts about Guru Jis hukums.